You're not alone in seeking help on behalf of your marriage. God is always at work healing, reconciling, and bringing long-sought intimacy into broken relationships. We love hearing the stories of God rescuing couples and redeeming seasons of loneliness, grave alienation, and betrayal. Such stories remind us that God is, ultimately, the Healer, the Wonderful Counselor, the Redeemer, our Comfort and Hope in life and in our marriages.
Likewise, we also hear desperate pleas for counsel and advice on how to live well while in a heartbreaking relationship—sometimes with deep, historic dysfunction. In these times, it's always helpful to seek out a professional counselor to walk through your relationship with you along with God’s help.
We also have a few resources to offer. John and Stasi's book Love & War helps couples fight for their love and happiness by calling on both men and women to step into the great adventure God has waiting for them.
We also have these resources that are a combination of teaching and discussions among the Wild at Heart Team:
Marriage Series from Morgan Snyder's Become Good Soil